I've been absent from the blog game for a few weeks, but I have been thinking of many ideas. I think it's about time I continue sharing my brilliant point of view with the rest of you. This snap shot into my mind reveals my two cents on the issue of being a day late and a dollar short, especially when it comes to romantic interest.
Am I the only one that noticed that as soon as you make your mind up to stop dealing with a person, they decide they're going to make all the changes you were begging them to make?
I've seen tears cried, heard begging pleas, and saw groveling all because that person had made a mistake (as we all do) that cost them a future with me. At the time I was torn in between guffaws and pity. It really is sad how much a person can be hurt by their own stupid decision, but its funny as well. Like oh you crying now, you wasn't crying when you was all up in dude face, making a mockery of my trust, and "Doing You." Soon as they see you mean business they want to apologize, delete numbers, call and tell the other person "we can't talk anymore," etc. For why though? From the very start (or soon there after) you knew what it was between us, but I guess it didn't mean anything to you. That's why you played around. One aspect of a game is losing is always a possibility. Congrats you lose... "I don't care if (you) cry blood right now." A few other things that are heat of the moment words that I want leave here.
This situation usually hurts the most when you break rule number 1 see (5 Rules To Life). So even though that person did you wrong, you have to step back and realize you opened that door. You gave them your trust, you believed in them, you gave them that opportunity. Many times we end up in this situation with people that did little or nothing to earn that which we have given them. So yeah, it's your fault just as much as it is theirs.
My advice is not as you may expect. I'm not going to say don't talk to them anymore, stop loving them, stop dealing with them. Instead, make sure that they go through the proper channels to earn that which they have lost. After all we all make mistakes, some of us learn from them and others don't. This is much too sensitive a subject make an across the board decision. BUT if you encounter the same problem with the same person after they have done the grunt work of getting back in your good graces it's no longer a mistake and that's the end of that.
I just thought of a really good part 2 but I would hate to overwhelm my readers, so tune in to my next blog When It's Too Late-2
